“I have control issues.”
This is what I hear from many people. As I am working with clients, I ask them to allow the
process to work. To do those things which help them to release negative thoughts and replace the thoughts with more positive ones. To notice thoughts at the moment the thought occurs so a choice can be made on who you want to be in each moment. To participate in the growth process with proven techniques in order to live a more defined life.
This is when I begin to hear …
“I have control issues!” “I can’t let go and not be in control.”
No one ever said that growing beyond where you are today wouldn’t be without some effort. It is with the release of old patterns, thoughts and behaviors that you are able to change.
Here is where I want to challenge you …
Do you really have control issues? Or are you allowing your thoughts to dictate who you are? Meaning that you really have a choice issue and not a control issue.
For most of you, you really are choosing to not to choose! You are deciding to give away your power by determining that you need to “take control” of all things.
What does it really mean to take control or be in control? Are you able to control the weather? Are you able to control other people’s thoughts? Or their actions? No, you are not. If you must have “control” in your life, then choose to control your thoughts. Your thoughts are the first choice and only choice you have.
Choose to be in control of your thoughts.
Noticing your thoughts in each and every moment is “hard work”. (I hear this a lot also.)
It takes a discipline as great as any Olympic athletic training to win the Gold Medal. They don’t just do a part of the training that has been established for them. They do the training and all of the training in the program. That is what I ask my clients to do … to do the work in a certain way. As they begin to “let go” of their control issues, they begin to see the changes in their behaviors. Their actions become second nature. Life flows more easily. Life is good – as the saying goes.
Control is not the answer. Choice is!
Be sure you make good ones!
TAKE THAT NEXT STEP! YOU ARE READY TO LIVE YOUR DREAM LIFE!
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