Have you ever felt that something in your life just wasn’t quite “right”? And you are not really sure what that “something” is? I have been there and I am sure you have, too.
Feeling anxious or out of sorts can be unsettling … especially when you are not sure what is going on. Your life seems ok – good relationship, good job, good health – and yet you know that something is missing. You keep trying to figure out why you are feeling this way and the answer is just not there.
What I know is that when I have these feelings of anxiousness, it usually means that I am being pushed to change. My inner knowing is giving me signals – telling me to step outside my comfort zone and do something that has been on my mind and scares me. There is a part of me that hates it when I am being pushed to GROW! It is also exciting – especially when I make the choice to do it anyway even though it is scary!
Just this past week, I had many of those moments … video taping a TV segment which will be played on a local access channel, conducting my first webinar (no longer a virgin!), and developing a new group program for all of you that want to work with me and yet can’t seem to find the money to invest in yourself. All of these things have me growing myself and my business. It is also asking me to be vulnerable to you, opening myself up to potential rejection or criticism. Living life to the fullest will have these moments of vulnerability. Accepting that vulnerability with criticism will happen is a growth step in all of our lives.
How do you allow yourself to grow and be vulnerable? You want a new relationship and yet you are not sure the other person wants one with you? You want the new job or new project and yet you are unsure if anyone will hire you, especially now in this stage of your life (too much experience or not enough). You really want to start exercising and yet you are afraid of what people will say or think about you since you feel “Fat”!
First, make a decision not to be tied to the outcome or the result. When you are able to let go of the outcome of anything that you are growing into, then you are able to determine who you will be when others try to stop you with criticism, rejection, etc. Remembering that most people come from either fear or love will allow you to determine who you will be in each and every moment.
Make a choice to come from love!
Just saying ….
TAKE THAT NEXT STEP!
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